Use Your Words
There's a popular phrase amongst parents of preschool and elementary aged children: "Use your words", they say, when their child is moody, whining, or struggling to express their juvenile needs or worries. This simple phrase sends somewhat of an electric shock to the brain of the child which almost always results in the kid quickly straightening up and attempting to verbalize their emotions.
After having somewhat of an unpleasant confrontation with a fellow co-worker involving her rolling her eyes and me exiting the room, I had a thought:
What if adults coined the phrased "Use your words" when dealing with other adults?
Why is this lesson only good for elementary aged children, when adults are the ones that struggle the most with communicating their needs and wants?
What if the physical emotion that we were acting out quickly turned to words filled with less emotion but more truth?
What if slammed doors, rolling of necks, fists against eyes, and tears along cheeks were replaced with words that speak life, provide encouragement, or give constructive criticism? We live in a world with a overwhelming amount of communication tools, but yet face so many situations where the tools seem to get in the way of what could be better understood and received verbally.
What if we used our words and said "I love you" instead of the emoji with the hearts for eyes?
What if we used our words and said, "you hurt me" or "don't call me" instead of ignoring phone calls? Sometimes non-verbal communication speaks louder and oftentimes sends the incorrect message.
What if we used our words instead of assume the worse or even the best in certain situations?
What if we said out loud what we mean instead of taking to Twitter, Facebook, or Instagram to discuss a private matter publicly?
What if we used our words?
I may be an optimist, but I think that by using our words a divorce could be reversed, a promotion could be given, and a life could be saved.
I don't know... just a thought...
After having somewhat of an unpleasant confrontation with a fellow co-worker involving her rolling her eyes and me exiting the room, I had a thought:
What if adults coined the phrased "Use your words" when dealing with other adults?
Why is this lesson only good for elementary aged children, when adults are the ones that struggle the most with communicating their needs and wants?
What if the physical emotion that we were acting out quickly turned to words filled with less emotion but more truth?
What if slammed doors, rolling of necks, fists against eyes, and tears along cheeks were replaced with words that speak life, provide encouragement, or give constructive criticism? We live in a world with a overwhelming amount of communication tools, but yet face so many situations where the tools seem to get in the way of what could be better understood and received verbally.
What if we used our words and said "I love you" instead of the emoji with the hearts for eyes?
What if we used our words and said, "you hurt me" or "don't call me" instead of ignoring phone calls? Sometimes non-verbal communication speaks louder and oftentimes sends the incorrect message.
What if we used our words instead of assume the worse or even the best in certain situations?
What if we said out loud what we mean instead of taking to Twitter, Facebook, or Instagram to discuss a private matter publicly?
What if we used our words?
I may be an optimist, but I think that by using our words a divorce could be reversed, a promotion could be given, and a life could be saved.
I don't know... just a thought...
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